Through this blog, written during my year of saying kaddish for my mother, Hilda Yael Kessler, may her memory be for a blessing, I attempted to reflect on and find meaning about the internal as well as ritualistic processes of mourning. I hope others may identify with and find some measure of comfort in its words.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
My father: the statistics
I had a good talk with my father when I visited him the week before last, the gist of which was the need to have a clear image of an independent life for as long as possible. Given his 53-year marriage to my mother, this is easier said than done. He said he was aware of the unfavorable statistics regarding broken hips and losing a long-time spouse. Having avoided it for a while, I decided to look them up. A quick Internet search reveals that mortality rates go up about 50% within the year of losing a spouse. This does not mean that 50% of spouses die within the year, but rather that, all things being equal, the odds of dying within a year of losing a spouse are 50% more. As to broken hips, mortality rates are about 25% within a year, higher for older people due to complications such as blood clots, pneumonia or infection. http://orthopedics.about.com/cs/hipsurgery/a/brokenhip_4.htm. Sobering indeed.
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